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Keep Trying, Keep Trying, Keep Trying

10/28/2016

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As the sea, life has a way of turning tumultuous when we're least expecting it.  And like ships, we can be left adrift, feeling alone in a sea of people and wondering if anyone understands.

Under such circumstances, it would be tempting to capsize and stay hidden until the storm has passed. But if we're lucky, very, very lucky, someone will draw alongside and help us keep trying.

Tremendous strength can be found in the try...

...in the stepping out of bed, when you'd rather stay hidden.
...in the putting one foot in front of the other, when you can hardly think. 
...in the doing the right thing, when you know it will be hard.
...in the holding onto hope, when you've been hurt to the core.

Something beautiful and powerful is happening in this try.  It is pushing you forward.  It is getting you closer to the shore.  It is changing things little by little.  

Little steps are good.  Little steps are life-changing.

So keep trying, my friend, keep trying.







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It's Okay to feel lost

10/21/2016

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It's not uncommon to feel lost in life; to feel a longing for something more, but have no clue what it is.

It especially common to feel overwhelmed when you're a teen, when your emotions race into overdrive, and your head fills with deep questions such as:  "Who am I?  What am I supposed to be doing?  Why do I feel like this?"

Having no sense of who you are or where you're headed can be scary, but it doesn't mean your life is a hopeless disaster. It means you've matured enough to become aware of the uncertainty in life.

This uncertainty creeps in on all of us, darkening our future with its shadows.

Shadows can hide possibilities, but they can't hurt us.

That's what I remind myself when I start to worry.  I turn on my music and begin to sway, singing praises for the good and whispering prayers for the future. It's how I stay calm when I'm facing the unexpected.

"Something better is waiting for me," I tell myself, "and someday I'll find it. I'll find it once the shadows pass."

It's okay if I don't have all of the answers right now. I'll keep hoping, and listening, and moving in the right direction, reminding myself that life is like a roller coaster.  There are ups and downs, steep turns and corners, but none of them last forever.  The ride eventually levels out and I'll be able to find my bearings again.

You'll be able to find your bearings again, too, my friend.

You're young and have many shadows to walk through on your journey. Some shadows will be short and others will be long, but all of them will be temporary. Don't be afraid when they keep you from seeing your future clearly. Everything will be better once they pass. You'll find answers to your questions when the timing is right.

In the meantime, take time to laugh and be thankful for the good things in your life. Nothing is wrong with you if you are feeling a little lost and overwhelmed.  It's just a stage of life - a normal reaction to an uncertain phase. Listen to the mentors in your life and seek help when you need someone to help you hang on.

Something better is out there for you, just waiting to be discovered.  One day you'll find it.



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don't let the bullies into your home

10/10/2016

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Hey, I saw what they posted on your Facebook page, and it made me angry. It's not right that they are coming into your personal space and harassing you. You don't have to put up with it!. Here are some things you can do to protect yourself:  


Block the bullies from contacting you. Contact your phone and Internet service providers and report what is happening. They can help you block messages or calls from certain senders.  

It also helps  to change your username, email, and cellphone number. Make sure you share your information with people who have no contact with the bullies.  
Check your friends' contact lists carefully.  Are any of them friends with someone who may have ties to the people who are harassing you?  
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Understand that what they are saying is wrong and hurtful. Don't believe what they say or let their bullying make you think something is wrong with you.  Remember: Bullies don't worry about being truthful.  They just want to hurt you.


Let someone you trust know what is happening.  They can support you and may be able to find a way to help.


Lay low and don't reply to the messages.  Things will only get worse if you do.  Plus, that is what the bully wants anyway:  they want a reaction from you.  


You should always keep a record of the bullying. Print out the harrassing messages and keep them in a file.  If the messages are threatening, contact the police.  You do not have to put up with this harassment, friend. Protect yourself.


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Forgiving Our Mistakes

10/1/2016

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The other day my friend spilled coffee on her shirt.  She tried to clean it off, but an annoying, brown stain remained. She was so embarrassed, she could hardly walk in the hallway. The funny thing is,  I wouldn't have noticed if she hadn't pointed it out to me. She was worrying for nothing.

Life can make us feel that way, also.  We make mistakes and we cringe, worried others will notice.  We walk around stressed that people are thinking poorly of us, when they are really just thinking about their own lives. 

Stains, whether they are food on a shirt or mistakes on a life, are normal occurrences that show us we're human. Others see our stains and relate to our situation.  "Yep, I've done the same thing,"  they think.

Our stains help people realize we're not different from one another.  They show us we all make mistakes,  we all have insecurities,  and we're all doing the best we can in a messy world. And in a messy world, the stains can get rather large. 

How comforting it is knowing every stain can be worked out eventually. 

Let's stop
being our own worst enemies, criticizing and rebuking ourselves endlessly over our mistakes, and give ourselves the grace to step into the hallway.

Acceptance and compassion are waiting there.

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